"All this time we were waiting for each other, all this time I was waiting for you."
5 ; Boy friends, cont.
So if you've been reading my posts, you've seen my previous post ( #2 ), about " boy friends ", and if you haven't, I don't mean boyfriends , I mean boy friends ( two words ) .
Have you ever had the feeling that when you're talking to someone, they don't really want to talk to you? Well, I'm sure you have.. most people have. But especially when it's someone you look forward to talking to. I've been feeling this way towards the same "boy friend" as before. Most of the time when he's talking to the girlfriend. I understand that he wants to talk to her and whatever, but when you spend the entire day with that person, I think a couple minutes talking to your best friend wouldn't hurt you too badly.
Or do you feel that you're always trying harder than another person to create conversation? Like you're always the one to text them first, or message them or tweet them, however you communicate. But whenever they want to complain about this, or about that or need advice on this, they can talk to you. No problem. The thing is though, you shouldn't feel "annoying" when you're talking about your problems. You shouldn't have to feel like they don't really care about what you have to say.... but you do. You do feel that way.
The worst part is: they don't even realize it's happening. You're too "nice" to say anything about it because you don't want to mess things up even more. You simply tell yourself, "Oh, they're just going through a hard time." or "He's just tired today." Or God knows how many more things you convince yourself. You shouldn't have to convince yourself, thats the point. If they were as good of a friend to you as you are to them, you should feel comfortable talking to them, or complaining to them as they do to you.
Short. Sorry. See ya.
Okay, that's it.
Laterrr.
"You say I'm lucky to love something that loves me, but I'm as torn as I could be."
I had this problem with my ex. I would always be the one to initiate conversation, and she would always be to busy talking to other guys to make me feel like I was worth her time.. :/
ReplyDeleteWorst part is, I went head over heels for her, and pushed away some really good lady-friends I had, that had helped me through hell and high-waters in years past..:(
But she is in my past now..and I have found someone who actually enjoys having conversation with me..
Btw..I listen/read your blogs >_>
Why did you unfollow mine?! T-T lol
I know I don't comment, but I do read them.
I like your commentary.
I've been that "lady friend" you speak of in similar situations. It sucks.
DeleteHave you brought your "lady friends" back into your life with your new girlfriend?
And I wouldn't know if you did or not, you don't have to if you don't want to.
I didn't mean to unfollow you, I was messing around on the settings page, I re-followed it, btw.
I'll put in my two cents in here and there.
Thanks for commenting.
No Problem ^_^ And yes I have, and my new GF is fine with it, and she has her own male friends that I am cool with. I like being able to talk to other females to get viewpoints on things my GF may be thinking about or have a different opinion on; it never hurts to get a viewpoint from the opposite sex. lol
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